Amnesia…
…or shall we say, schizophrenia?
When I was taking prenatal yoga, I remember the instructor talked about "motherhood amnesia". You know, that thing that sets in eventually after each difficult child-related event, such as pregnancy and varicose veins, labor, birth, sleep deprivation, baby blues, endless newborn screaming, etc. The night that Albert was born, I remarked to H that at that point in time, I didn’t think I ever wanted to go through childbirth again and that one child might really be enough. I had a hard time sleeping that night because I couldn’t stop having the sensation of pushing and pushing and pushin. I thought about the amnesia thing then, and couldn’t imagine I could forget the intensity of childbirth that easily. I thought it would take months.
How long did it take for amnesia to set in?
About 24 hours.
The length of time between each difficult period and its subsequent amnesia has only decreased over time. To the point where now, I can utter a statement such as, “what was I thinking having a kid?” or “I am so tired I could die,” only to casually mention within the next 60 seconds I can’t wait to have another child and that it is so much more fun than I thought it would be.
Because when I look at him and he is smiling, it is really hard to focus on any of the negatives.
I was prepared to experience this amnesia thing. I just didn’t think that it would occur simultaneously with the challenging times. It makes me dizzy just thinking about it.
Ohhhh now right you are. It’s like when our kids are so tired and cranky and driving us crazy and they FINALLY go down for a nap…sweet relief. But then, when they wake up we run in joy to them as if we can’t wait to start the crazy cycle all over again. And the truth is, we can’t.
Babies are yummy. Enjoy your Albie.
PS Runaway Bunny is a hit. It is now a nightly ritual. Thank you!
Comment by Leigh — November 14, 2007 @ 10:12 am